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You’re probably familiar with the article published in Housekeeping Monthly in May of 1955 on how to be a good wife. It was called, “The Good Wife’s Guide,” and it detailed all the ways that a wife should act and how best she can be a partner to her husband and a mother to her children. The rules have certainly changed a lot since then but it is truly fascinating how society once behaved and the rituals and traditions that have carried over from the 50s to today. The article is pretty much based on the man’s arrival home after a long day at work and what your duties are to prepare for it. So here goes: Pinterest 1. Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Click Americana 2. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed. And the Words became Books 3. Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Pinterest Click NEXT to continue... 4. Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it. Pinterest 5. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc. and then run a dust cloth over the tables. Pinterest 6. Over the cooler months of the year, you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction. LittleThings So far, do you do these things? Check out the NEXT and let us know... 7. Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes. Pinterest 8. Children are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Pinterest 9. Be happy to see him. Free him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him. Listen to him. KGNC Click NEXT to see more... 10. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first — remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours. Pinterest 11. Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax. thestudentroom.co.uk 12. Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order, and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit. Pinterest Click NEXT to see what else was in the guide 13. Don’t greet him with complaints and problems. Pinterest 14. Don’t complain if he’s late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day. Flickr/Isabel Santos Pilot 15. Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Pinterest Click NEXT to see other guidelines... 16. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice. Pinterest 17. Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment of integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him. Pinterest 18. A good wife always knows her place. Pinterest So, Would you be able to follow these 1950s housewife guidelines? Let us know in the comment section below! And, if you LIKE this story, please SHARE this story! (Source: Real Honest Mom) Related: 1950s Marriage Advice For Women Granny Really DOES Know Best!