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Inside The Golden Girls’ Feud: Betty White And Bea Arthur’s Backstage Clash

by Ruth A

Published November 13, 2025

For nearly four decades, The Golden Girls has stood as one of television’s most beloved sitcoms, a celebration of wit, friendship, and unapologetic humor. Yet behind the laughter, tension occasionally brewed among the show’s stars—especially between Betty White and Bea Arthur. According to People, a new ABC News special titled The Golden Girls: 40 Years of Laughter and Friendship revisits that complex relationship, offering fresh details about their infamous backstage fight.

The special, which aired ahead of its streaming release on Disney+ and Hulu, explores the dynamic between the two Emmy-winning actresses. Though both women were professionals, their differing temperaments occasionally clashed. White’s lighthearted style often contrasted with Arthur’s serious, Broadway-trained approach to comedy. The result was a professional friendship filled with mutual respect but punctuated by real-life friction—a story that adds new depth to The Golden Girls legacy.

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Behind The Scenes Of The Golden Girls Feud

THE GOLDEN GIRLS, from left, Estelle Getty, Bea Arthur, Betty White, and Rue McClanahan, 1985-92 (1985 photo). ph: Mario Casilli / TV Guide / ©NBC / courtesy Everett Collection

For years, fans have speculated about what really happened behind the curtain of The Golden Girls. Now, co-producer Marsha Posner Williams confirms that the tension wasn’t a myth. During filming of the 1986 holiday episode “‘Twas the Nightmare Before Christmas,” emotions finally boiled over. “We heard yelling backstage,” recalled original writer Barry Fanaro. “They were having a fight. It was the only time ever.”

THE GOLDEN GIRLS, Bea Arthur, Betty White, Rue McClanahan
THE GOLDEN GIRLS, Bea Arthur, Betty White, Rue McClanahan, ’72 Hours,’ (Season 5, aired Feb. 17, 1990), 1985-1992, © Touchstone / Courtesy: Everett Collection

What happened next, however, became part of sitcom lore. To lighten the mood, stagehands created a joke calendar filled with playful, risqué photos of themselves. When the cast discovered the prank, laughter filled the set once again. “Bea laughed so loud,” said executive producer Tony Thomas, describing how humor restored harmony on The Golden Girls stage. Despite personal differences, the women’s professionalism never wavered once the cameras rolled.

The Legacy Of The Golden Girls Endures

GOLDEN GIRLS, Bea Arthur, Rue McClanahan, Betty White, Estelle Getty, 1985-1992/Everett Collection

Even with its behind-the-scenes drama, The Golden Girls remains a cultural touchstone. The ABC News special reveals never-before-seen rehearsal footage showing Betty, Bea, Rue McClanahan, and Estelle Getty laughing together on set. It also features commentary from superfans such as Kelly Ripa, Sheryl Lee Ralph, and Laverne Cox, alongside early guest stars like George Clooney and Mario Lopez.

THE GOLDEN GIRLS, Rue McClanahan, Estelle Getty, Leslie Nielsen, Bea Arthur, Betty White, ‘One Flew Out of the Cuckoo’s Nest (Part 2)’, (Season 7, epis. #726, aired May 9, 1992), Series Finale, 1985-92, © Touchstone / Courtesy: Everett Collection

In reflecting on their bond, writer-producer Mitch Hurwitz said their friction came from passion, not animosity. “Betty could charm an audience in seconds,” he explained, “while Bea focused intensely on her craft.” Their contrast created the show’s unforgettable chemistry. Forty years later, The Golden Girls continues to inspire fans with its humor, honesty, and enduring message about friendship—on-screen and off.

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