Sinéad O’Connor passed away in 2023, but her influence remains strong. Fans continue to honor her legacy with stories of her personal life. One of these stories is from her 2021 memoir, Rememberings, where she shared her hilarious run-in with German customs officials. The singer’s children had different last names, which made the authorities suspect a case of child trafficking.
The late singer had four children, each with a different father, and had been married multiple times. While the customs agents found the situation suspicious, her witty response ultimately put an end to their concerns. However, she found the encounter hilarious and detailed the story.
Sinéad O’Connor’s response to child trafficking suspicions
O’Connor’s multiple relationships resulted in four children — Jake Reynolds, Roisin Waters, Shane O’Connor, and Yeshua Bonadio — each carrying a different surname. While this was not unusual for the singer, it became an issue when her children were traveling to visit her in Germany. A customs officer noticed the different last names and grew suspicious, especially since the children were accompanied by a male nanny who also had a different surname.
As the situation escalated, O’Connor had to intervene via phone from her hotel room. She spent nearly 20 minutes explaining the family’s background, but nothing seemed to satisfy the customs agent’s curiosity. In an attempt to defuse the situation, she jokingly said, “Look, I was a bit of a slut.” That unexpected remark changed everything, and the officer quickly let the matter go.
O’Connor’s romantic life was eventful as she had four marriages that each ended in separation. Her first husband, John Reynolds, was a drummer and producer who worked on several of her albums; they had a son together before divorcing in 1991. She later married journalist Nick Sommerlad in 2004, but their union lasted only 11 months. Her third husband, musician Steve Cooney, was part of her touring band, though their marriage ended in 2011 after less than a year.
The singer once asked her children to milk her inheritance
Beyond her personal life, O’Connor was deeply concerned about the exploitation of musicians after death. She frequently spoke out against record labels profiting from deceased artists, citing the example of Prince’s posthumous releases. Determined to protect her own legacy, she left clear instructions for her children regarding her music rights. In a 2013 document revealed in 2025, she directed them to take full control of her catalog and “milk it for what it’s worth.”
Her estate, valued at $1.75 million, was left to her children, ensuring their financial security. O’Connor had always been outspoken about the treatment of artists, particularly how their work was often mishandled after their passing. She urged her children to be vigilant and advised them to keep track of any posthumous releases.