Rules Of Dating, The 1950's Way

There are some things we love about the 1950s—midcentury furniture design and the period’s full-skirted, ladylike fashions, for example. Things we appreciate a little bit less? The comically cringe-worthy dating culture and the way women were instructed to behave in order to attract a partner. Yes, in this case, “old-fashioned” is an epic understatement for just how ridiculous the advice in ladies journals of the time was. Read on for some 100% authentic “wisdom” women of the period were treated to, and breath a sigh of relief that times, they are a-changin’. But one of the most surprising discoveries from taking a nostalgic look at the 1950s involves the strict “rules” of courtship. Back then, rules like “never drop your silverware on a first date” weren’t seen as overly strict — they were just the norm. Don't sit in awkward positions and never look bored. Be alert, and if you must chew gum, do it silently, mouth closed. Image via Retrospace MEN DON'T LIKE girls who borrow their handkerchief and smudge them with lipstick. Makeup in privacy, not where he sees you. Image via Retrospace BE READY to go when your date arrives; don't keep him waiting. Greet him with a smile! Image via Retrospace IF YOU NEED a brassiere, wear one. Don't tug at your girdle, and be careful your stockings are not wrinkled Image via Retrospace CARELESS WOMEN never appeal to gentlemen. Don't talk while dancing, for when a man dances, he wants to dance Image via Retrospace DON'T USE THE CAR MIRROR to fix your make-up. Man needs it in driving, and it annoys him very much to have to tum around to see what's behind him Image via Retrospace DON'T BE SENTIMENTAL or try to get him to say something he doesn't want to by working on his emotions. Image via Retrospace DON'T BE CONSPICUOUS talking to other men Image via Retrospace DON'T BE FAMILIAR with your escort by caressing him in public. Any open show of affection is in bad taste usually will embarrass or humiliate him Image via Retrospace DON'T BE FAMILIAR with the headwaiter talking about the fun you had with someone else another time. Men deserve, desire your entire attention Image via Retrospace DON'T DRINK TOO MUCH, as a man expects you to keep your dignity all evening. Drinking may make some girls seem clever, but most get silly Image via Retrospace The last straw is to pass out from too much liquor. Chances are your date will never call you again! Image via Retrospace Source: (Retrospace)